Thomas Edison was once asked how it felt to fail for years while trying to invent the light bulb. He famously replied, “I didn’t fail. I just found thousands of ways not to do it.”
My journey learning how to have prostate orgasms felt very similar.
There were hundreds, maybe thousands, of ways I failed before I started figuring out what actually worked. That’s one of the reasons I wrote Prostranal. I wanted people to have a faster learning curve, a better success rate, and fewer frustrating dead ends.
In the book, I talk about what I call the “staircase method.” In simple terms, it means you first learn by copying people who already know what they’re doing. Then, once you understand the fundamentals, you begin improvising, experimenting, and evolving your own approach to reach a higher level of mastery.
I intentionally didn’t make Prostranal a self-help book, so I only lightly touched on the psychology behind it. But mindset plays a massive role in the journey.
There are really two ways to approach learning anything difficult: with a growth mindset or a fixed mindset.
Someone with a growth mindset might think: Damn, prostate orgasms are hard to achieve... but I’m going to figure this out.
Someone with a fixed mindset tries a few times, doesn’t get results, and concludes: This is fake. It’s a myth. It's not possible. I quit.
That difference in thinking matters more than most people realize.
Success in this journey isn’t just about rewiring your body for new forms of pleasure. It’s also about catching and reshaping the way you think. If you can become adaptable and persistent instead of shutting down at the first sign of difficulty, you dramatically increase your chances of success while avoiding countless unnecessary rounds of frustration and failure.
So the real question is: when frustration shows up, what mindset will you choose? And more importantly, what mindset are you carrying through the rest of your life outside of prostate pleasure?
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